Regulars????
Maybe we should call then infrequent givers with a need to be wanted??? I mean whether you are a dancer, bartender, pornstar, ect. You have ran into these guys that 'Befriend' you, and eventually you start seeing them at your place of work consistantly.
If you are a dancer these are the people that come in and take u straight to the vip room and comes back on a wkly bassis or on a schedule that u have gotten used to. or if you guys are really close you can just pick up your phone and call them into the club/your place of business and that person makes your night.
If you are a bartender of course its someone that you know and knows you by name always tips big, comes on the regular ect...
Anyway these are the guys.fans that adore us soo much they give us their money, take us shopping, sometimes take us on fancy trips, just have earned in our head the title of our regular...
Then...as the time passes, the regular becomes the not so regular... they become the 'i'll give u x amount on this day' or 'im coming into the club on this nite' and they never show...or the ill meet u at x spot 7pm...and nothing happens....wtf???
Some people do the courtesy call/email, you know maybe something came up give them the benefit of the doubt and what happens, all of a sudden this at one point regular is unreachable.
Of course by the time you finally get said person they have an excuse of something that wasn't exactly last min, aka when it came up in advance they could of called but they didn't instead they waited until you have contacted them and want to act like you are bothering them or for whatever warped reason think we actually desparetely need them to do whatever they were supposed to do...
When actually its a follow up. Simply put if you say you are going to do something then do it....have enough respect to call to say when things change or hell that u no longer want to do it. It is totally disrespectful to think we have nothing better to do other than rearrange our schedules, how we work at the club, what trips we take. Or to think that for whatever we do not have our own money, house, clothes and we can not do whatever you were going to do by ourself....
You know your situation before you even think of being nice or whatever you want to call it. you know if you have a wife, baby mother, kids, bills, at home so therefore do not offer these huge sums of money, huge shopping sprees, when all you are going to do is come give us the sob story as to why you cannot come thru...at that point we do not care and its a bunch of blah blah blah in one ear and out the other until the phone clicks....next call to the person that actually comes thru.....
