When you are in a relationship, or single you sometimes think or feel nothing is wrong with you. You can be in a conversation with friends and sex comes up or stds and the first thing you might say is oh im clean! Or that new person in your life asks you do you have any std’s and the same result is Im safe, Im drug and diesease free!
But are you?
The sick thing about std’s is that alot of them in some people have no symptoms…you feel nothing out of the ordinary, nothing looks strange, everyday is a normal day for the person.Underneath it all std’s like chlamydia and gonorreah are running rampid and if you are single having unprotected sex doing the 1 nite stand thing you are infecting people left and right.
Even if you are in a relationship or a brand new one you could have gotten it from your ex and because there were no symptoms just gave it to your sig. other. what an interesting argument that would be because immediately your are thinking some1 has cheated on you when in actuality you or your sig other could have brought it into the relationship via the ex….The only way to prevent things like this is to stop beaing fearful and
GET TESTED!
Getting tested can be scary but its nothing better than having that paper or that sense of positivity that you are diesease free. If you are in a serious relationship its an even better time to sit down and bring it up as being serious to each other and you both get tested at the same time. If you are just starting a relationship maybe that can be a prerequisite to the relationship just to protect both parties b4 having unprotected sex or sex in general.
If for whatever reason you cannot go to your regular doctor, or you want to say u get tested the same way the porn stars do go to
http://aim-med.org
the site has all the info you need about stds and even getting into the porn industry. Most importantly you can find a aim testing location in your area to go get tested and in some cases have the results back in 1-2days. That way you can start being serious about you and your life knowing you are absolutely not infected with stds or hiv.
The rhythm method never works during sex so y expect that just because you aren’t feeling weird, not having any symptoms that every time you have unprotected sex with someone you are always diease free?
Life is 2 short, dont play around w it or take it for granted…
But are you?
The sick thing about std’s is that alot of them in some people have no symptoms…you feel nothing out of the ordinary, nothing looks strange, everyday is a normal day for the person.Underneath it all std’s like chlamydia and gonorreah are running rampid and if you are single having unprotected sex doing the 1 nite stand thing you are infecting people left and right.
Even if you are in a relationship or a brand new one you could have gotten it from your ex and because there were no symptoms just gave it to your sig. other. what an interesting argument that would be because immediately your are thinking some1 has cheated on you when in actuality you or your sig other could have brought it into the relationship via the ex….The only way to prevent things like this is to stop beaing fearful and
GET TESTED!
Getting tested can be scary but its nothing better than having that paper or that sense of positivity that you are diesease free. If you are in a serious relationship its an even better time to sit down and bring it up as being serious to each other and you both get tested at the same time. If you are just starting a relationship maybe that can be a prerequisite to the relationship just to protect both parties b4 having unprotected sex or sex in general.
If for whatever reason you cannot go to your regular doctor, or you want to say u get tested the same way the porn stars do go to
http://aim-med.org
the site has all the info you need about stds and even getting into the porn industry. Most importantly you can find a aim testing location in your area to go get tested and in some cases have the results back in 1-2days. That way you can start being serious about you and your life knowing you are absolutely not infected with stds or hiv.
The rhythm method never works during sex so y expect that just because you aren’t feeling weird, not having any symptoms that every time you have unprotected sex with someone you are always diease free?
Life is 2 short, dont play around w it or take it for granted…
*Smoochez*
JCL
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